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July 10, 2009

Cherries: An Orchard FYEye.

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Local orchard manager Rod keeps telling us its a bad year for cherries, but it looks pretty good to me. I don't remember a year that we've had so much fruit on the branches. And we have a few weeks to go - they will triple in size before we harvest.

July 08, 2009

The Happiness Manifesto

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Buddy The Dog cruising Glacier National Park.


I've been checking out Gretchen Rubin's Happiness Project and The Happiness Project Toolbox. An interesting set of tools to move you toward good times: a group resolution kit, a list of personal commandments you can pick and choose for yourself, and my favorite -  "Adult Education." Reminders of what you've already learned from life - so that you don't repeat your mistakes.  I'll have to add mine: "Not everyone at work is on your side."

Here is the Manifesto Rubin created:

A Happiness Manifesto

  • To be happy, you need to consider feeling good, feeling bad, and feeling right, in an atmosphere of growth.
  • One of the best ways to make yourself happy is to make other people happy; One of the best ways to make other people happy is to be happy yourself.
  • The days are long, but the years are short.
  • You're not happy unless you think you're happy.
  • Your body matters.
  • Happiness is other people.
  • Think about yourself so you can forget yourself.
  • "It is easy to be heavy: hard to be light."—G. K. Chesterton
  • What's fun for other people may not be fun for you, and vice versa.
  • Best is good, better is best.
  • Outer order contributes to inner calm.
  • Happiness comes not from having more, not from having less, but from wanting what you have.
  • You can choose what you do, but you can't choose what you like to do.
  • "There is no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy." —Robert Louis Stevenson
  • You manage what you measure.

I agree that your body matters. It's important to balance the need to care for it with the need to enjoy life. I think it can also be helpful to act the way you feel (not on this list). Not as a performance, but as a way to get out of the groove of just being...well...bummed.

What do you think is missing from this list? What's relevant? Are any of these items just complete crap - in your opinion?

July 07, 2009

Library by Library.

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I just finished reading the memoirs of Beverly Cleary, author of the Ramona books for children.  A Girl from Yamhill was perhaps the better of the two memoirs, but it wasn't until the second book that I learned about Cleary's had been a long-time librarian. Her first job was as hospital libarian during World War II. She observed:

"Most doctors, I soon learned, read history, biography, and mysteries. Men who broke their legs riding motorcycles always wanted Western stories. The psychiatrist requested books by Arthur Koestler. A man who said in civilian life he 'sold jewels to rich old women' shared my pleasure in James Thurber. Enlisted men often assked for books by Donald Henderson Clark, an author I had never heard of. The 9th Service Command's library philosophy was, 'Give the men what they want.' I ordered The Impatient Virgin, Tawny, and other Clark titles, which the men pounced on, usually saying, "I didn't think you would have these."

Best sellers were in demand, most of all
Forever Amber by Kathleen Winsor...that book, written by a classmate [from college], was a nagging reminder every time it crossed our new circulation desk that I too, wanted to write - if the war would ever end, and I could find time."

Interesting things happen in libraries. I was the Anthropology Librarian at the University of Edinburgh during my studies for a Master's Degree. It was a small library and I shared the position half-time with a Scot named Paul. One week, all the skin peeled off the bottoms of my feet. I wasn't sure what it was about but Paul's girlfriend mentioned during a shift change that the skin was peeling off the bottoms of Paul's feet. We're still not sure why, but we're pretty sure it had something to do with the library.

A Dutch student that came in to study smelled so bad that I would get a headache whenever he was in the room. Many people in Scotland don't have hot water in the winter, but this seemed extreme. I made the mistake of mentioning it to a friend [from Spain] who replied, "Yes, you Americans are very sensitive to things like that, aren't you?"

At Georgetown, I took many good naps on the 3rd floor of Lauinger [pictured above.] The sun streamed through the windows onto comfortable chairs and the sound of jet engines on final lulled me into restful slumbers. When I figured out how to stay awake (by studying in the carrols), I finally graduated. In the meantime, I wondered about Mark Lauinger, why he had died so young, and how his parents made enough money to have the library named for him. But I never once looked it up.

I did much of my research for my undergraduate thesis at the Newberry Library in Chicago, which had an excellent American Indian Studies collection. I loved the seriousness of my time there - the fact that I was only allowed one book at time, that it had to rest in a foam holder while I paged through it, and I was only allowed a pencil and a pad of paper in the study room -- nothing more. Sometimes, they even made me wear white cotton gloves to turn the pages. All of that made me feel very, very, smart.

Before Georgetown, there was a long stretch where I didn't spend any time in libraries at all. I'm a serial non-returner. Huge fines. I was actually committed to buying books rather than borrowing, since it wound up to be cheaper. And I'm still that way. I often visit the community college library or the library at University of Montana to do research, but I never, ever, ask for borrowing privileges. I'm just not that responsible.

In my youth, however, I spent many happy hours at the public library in Champaign-Urbana, Illinois. Though I don't recognize it all from the photo tour. In the fourth grade, when I had the flu, I accidentally barfed on a library book. Not knowing what else to do, I just returned it.

July 06, 2009

Patricia S. Aleman: Ironing Out My Wrinkles

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Patricia S. Aleman just graduated from Miami's DASH (Design and Architecture Senior High) magnet school and has two pieces on show as part of the National Foundation for Advancement in the Arts show at the Smithsonian's Museum of American Art in Washington, DC. In her artist statement, she comments that her work "portrays the moment in time when a conflict arises, when one is taken over by the "other."

The central theme of these two sculptures are her life experience with an eating disorder. The jeans cover the figure, becoming a kind of second skin over the body, taking it over in mind and form. The figures are covered with white bird feces, a symbol of migration and what the eating disorder has left behind.

What do you think of the work?

July 03, 2009

Good Mail.

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I love the internet, obviously, but something has been lost for me in the frenzied conversion to e-everything. Anticipation. Surprise. The warm fuzzy feeling you get when you understand that someone far away is still thinking about you, with some measure of care.

Growing up I spent summers at my Dad's house, just outside of Philadelphia. I used to wait for the mailman to arrive, totally impatient for a letter from a friend back home in Illinois.

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Now, I send "good mail", randomly, to friends. Some "get it" and some don't. Some send good mail in return. My friend D. is one of those people. It's not an envelope, it's collage - front and back. 

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She's also a keen observer.